It seems like all of my friends are having guy problems. Like ALL of them, including myself. Well, I am not so much having problems; things are just not where I want them to be right now. But, the rest of my friends are having serious problems. I mean "break-down-and-cry-til-your-eyes-swell" problems. And I don't know why. Sometimes, I think we may have settled on dudes that are really not worth our time. I mean I love my guy to death, but I wonder all the time if I could have done better. But we have been together for so many years that I think we are sort of used to each other. Is that why I can't see myself with anyone else?
Who knows?
All I know is that it seems like once you are with a guy for so long, he just begins to get careless. I mean, when you first start dating, a guy can be so sweet and so romantic. Then, the sparkle wears off, and I think that years of being together is a signal for guys to drop all that "mushy" stuff which made us fall for them in the first place. And you can tell a guy over and over how you feel, and they can promise you the world. But nothing ever changes! I am just really frustrated right now. Between trying to console my friends and dealing with things with me and my guy, it is just toooo much. I'll be fine. I know everything will work out in the end. I just felt like this would be a good way to release some of this tension.
And I will be in Baskin Robbins Saturday with my friend Shan so we can vent and talk about her "no-good" boyfriend. (Well he is "no-good" for now anyway. Tomorrow he may be the greatest love of her life. LOL :)
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